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Why Women Have Affairs

The reasons why women decide to have an affair are complex and many.


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I could literally list more than 50 subtle reasons, but for the purposes of this content, I’m going to focus on the very obvious ones.

1. A Lack of Love, Respect, and Attraction


It doesn’t matter if a relationship felt amazing at the start, or even if a woman said “till death do us part,” if the love, respect, and attraction has faded away, she may begin to stray.


If you allow your marriage to turn into a sexless friendship, you can’t expect your wife to want to stick around for life.


2. Arguments That Don’t Lead to Change


When arguments are frequent and a day rarely passes without some degree of emotional upset in your relationship, a woman is going to start thinking of why she puts up with it.


Women of past generations had to put up with it and try to work through it, even if the husband responded badly and his behavior got worse as a result.


These days, if a woman isn’t happy in her relationship or marriage, it has become somewhat socially acceptable for a woman to leave, or worse, have an affair behind his back.


Things are not always going to run smoothly in a relationship every hour and every day, but couples in successful relationships get through rough patches by facing problems and looking for ways to fix them, not running away and hiding from them.


One of the quickest ways to stop all the arguing in a relationship is to realize that neither you nor your wife is perfect. No one is perfect.


Both you and she are going to make communication and behavioral mistakes around each other.


However, for the sake of love and your commitment together, you are going to always try your best to learn from your mistakes so you can be better for each other and have a more harmonious relationship.


When you and she have that understanding, you then don’t have to be so serious about any miscommunications or behavioral slip-ups.


You can both be more patient with each other and allow each other to grow and improve in a more relaxed manner.


When you see that you both have each other’s back, you then feel more inclined to want to change, improve, and grow to make the relationship even better than it is.


However, if you’re always arguing and trying to pick each other apart, there won’t be much motivation to want to change for the happiness of the other person.

3. She No Longer Feels Wanted or Sexy Around You


There are desperate men out there who actively prey on married women and women in long term relationships.


They live by the old saying, “Show me a beautiful woman in a long-term relationship and I’ll show you a man who is bored of having sex with her.”


Their approach to women like that is to give them lots of compliments, make them feel beautiful, and slowly lure them into having an affair.


Guys like that can rarely if ever, pick up women who aren’t in need of a self-esteem boost, so they spend a lot of time and energy trying to convert a married woman into a lover.

To protect your relationship against men like that, you need to ensure that your woman feels sexy around you.


You’ve got to look at her like she is the sexiest woman on Earth in your eyes. Let her feel it in the way that you look at her, touch her, and love her.


Important: She won’t care if you look at her as being sexy if she doesn’t respect you and feel attracted to you.


If your woman doesn’t respect you or feel attracted to you, make sure that you focus on fixing that.


Otherwise, you will give her too much power and she will lose even more respect for you.

Most men are perfectly capable of making a woman feel sexy during the initial part of a relationship when there is plenty of romance and natural lust. Yet, after a while, they simply take the woman’s love and devotion for granted.


4. She’s a Woman of Bad Character


It’s not always the man’s fault.


Sometimes, a man ends up with a woman who is simply a bad person.


She’s untrustworthy, disloyal, and unloving. Maybe that is because of the scars she still wears after a horrible upbringing, or because she is the sort of person who likes to do bad things and hurt people.


Another reason why a woman will have an affair is that…

5. You’re Not Being The Man She Needs


This can mean that:

  • Emotionally insecure.

  • Lacing in ambition and life purpose.

  • Not masculine enough in his thinking, behavior, actions, and energy.

  • Unable to make her feel like a real woman.


Unfortunately, most guys don’t ever get taught what it means to be a real man.


Some guys are lucky to grow up with a father or male role model who can teach them how to be the sort of man that a woman will cherish and stick by for life, but most aren’t.


Most guys enter adulthood and are still left wondering what women really want.


Some guys end up getting lucky with a woman that they’re not truly compatible with and then trying to make it work, rather than actually knowing how to attract women so they can have their choice of women and choose the right one for them.


Save Your Relationship While You Still Can


If she is unhappy, it's only a matter of time before she leaves you.


Every day, millions of men all over the world are shocked when their woman SUDDENLY breaks up with them for real.


Don't be one of those men.


Be one of the rare men who are proactive enough to fix the relationship while you still can.


You can QUICKLY make her love you, respect you, and feel attracted to you again.


It's a very easy thing to do and it will SAVE your relationship.

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